I’ve read a lot of parenting books. I’ve highlighted, underlined, dog-eared, and returned to them over and over on this journey of raising kids.
One of the biggest surprises to me, however, were these three books. I never expected books that were about books to change the way I parent my children. But these did.
The Read-Aloud Handbook by Jim Trelease started it all. I wanted to get more ideas for quality literature to read with my kids. With so many choices out there, it was really important to me that I knew how to discern what was best. So, I was basically looking for a list (this book has a great one), but what I got was a lesson: reading aloud is vital, not just when kids are small, but when they’re older, too. And I haven’t parented the same since I found out why. I checked this book out from the local library, devoured it, and then had to buy a copy to keep on my bookshelf forever. So, there you go.
My husband and I traveled a lot before we had kids. We still travel, but it’s not quite as straightforward as it used to be with four kids under 7. I came across Jamie C. Martin’s Give Your Child the World: Raising Globally Minded Kids One Book at a Time early on in parenting, when I was really longing for travel, but just didn’t have the energy, time, or money to do so. I decided that we could start traveling right within our home, that reading aloud was an opportunity to go anywhere around the world together. This book gave me tons of ideas that have allowed us to share different places and people with our children which has been one of the greatest joys of parenting. I still add little notes to each country’s section if we discover a brand new book about a specific place that I want to add to Jamie’s amazing list.
Finally, this one is now a big-time podcast, movement, global conversation, with it’s author Sarah Mackenzie speaking all over the place and changing the world with her Read Aloud Revival: The Read-Aloud Family: Making Meaningful and Lasting Connections with Your Kids. Sarah was also heavily influenced by Jim Trelease, and her contribution to the subject of reading aloud with your kids continues the discussion in some beautiful, creative, and practical ways. I have different and more meaningful everyday conversations with my kids based on this book’s advice. I can’t recommend it highly enough.
Brazilian writer Mario Quintana said, “Books don’t change the world, people change the world, books only change people.” These books have certainly changed our family for the better.
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